A letter from Alice


Dear Lu
I’m with my boyfriend 5 years now and although we had our ups and downs we had what I considered a wonderful relationship.
I’m 52 and He is 68..Lately I find that he is not as attentive and loving as he used to be and I can’t help feeling he is no longer attracted to me.
I gained weight and he constantly reminds me of it, however I’m so down on myself that I can’t seem to do anything about it.
I love him, and at my age I don’t see myself looking for another relationship.
We don’t live together because his children don’t approve of me, and I’m not looking to cause trouble in his family.
Lately he’s not spending as much time with me as he used to..When ever he comes over, he just lays on the couch and watches tv.
What would Lu do?